My school councillor today told me that ‘you can’t really be gay though until you’re older, you don’t really know right now”

Im so mad becuase that’s kinda homophobic?? Basically suggesting that everyone is straight and nobody can be gay till they’ve got a job or left school?? It’s as so infuriating like this isn’t no video game I don’t get to level 18 and unlock ‘gay’ ugh I’m in a bad mood because of it